Friday, March 20, 2009

Spring Break.... Adult Style


In high school I remember Spring Break of my Junior year riding the Metro into DC with some friends and going to see the Washington Monument and some other monuments. It was a windy day, but I loved the picture of all of us in front of the Washington Monument (one of these days I will scan my old pictures.... borrowing someone's scanner :) ).
When I was a senior the Orchestra went on a competition trip to Myrtle Beach, SC. It was cold and rainy, so not great beach weather.
In college, what I remember is working over Spring Break.... doing temp work at Manpower, or something. Maybe I did something cool, and my family can remind me what it was, but I don't remember it.
So I was very excited this year when my sister, who is a professor, had Spring Break off and suggested a vacation. I had such a great time visiting Chicago with my sisters over Labor Day, and looked forward to doing it again.

Day 1: Friday March 6
I don't know about you, but when there is a road trip involved, it is Christmas! I can't sleep, I get up before the alarm and am ready to hit the road. It was the same driving up to PA to visit my good friends before heading onto see my sisters. So I got up and drove. I passed by many familiar sights in the DC area, and then onto Pennsylvania. I had a great time visiting my friends, seeing the new office, their town, and just visiting.


I am only supposed to show cute pictures, but I think this is cute

Day 2: Saturday March 7
I got up and drove into NYC to pick up my sisters at the airport. The roads in PA are very interesting... they have these huge dots on the road, and they tell you not to drive too close to another car. There has to be two dots between you and another car. Also, they have "safety corridors", where you get fined more if you are speeding or have an accident. But what about all the other parts of the road? We don't care if those are safe?
I was a bit stressed because the line to get through the tunnel from New Jersey to NYC was very very long, and it ended up taking me an hour longer than expected to get to the airport because of traffic. In the middle of the day on a Saturday. Reason #1 to be thankful for living in North Carolina :)
But it worked out because my sisters planes were late, and they didn't come in at the same terminal, so they had to take a shuttle to meet up. It was so great to see them!
Driving back to the hotel, we went through queens, and so I had my sister hang out the car window to take a picture of the Space Ships from Men In Black.
Then we went to the hotel, which was right in downtown Manhattan. If you haven't ever stayed in NYC, be prepared. The hotels are tiny! Well... the rooms are anyway. But we were a couple of blocks south of Central Park, and a couple of blocks north of Times Square, so you can't complain about the location.
Then we went and got dinner at Bubba Gump Shrimp (some good shrimp) in Times Square, and went to the Knicks Game at Madison Square Garden, where the Charlotte Bobcats beat them.



Day 3: Sunday March 8
We got up and went to church in the building that has the Manhattan Temple. It was really cool to see that building.


It was a gorgeous day, sunny and relatively warm for NYC, so we then went to Central Park and walked around. We saw where Hugh Jackman chases the purse snatcher for Meg Ryon. We tried twice to find Alex the Lion, but failed. We did see Strawberry Fields, and listen to a Beatles imitation band, and then watched some ice skating competition. After that we walked to the Rockefeller Center and saw the ice skating rink where Elf goes ice skating. Basically, walking around NYC is like walking around a bunch of movies!

Then we went to the ESPN Zone to watch Carolina play Duke in the final game of the season before official March Madness started. It was awesome! Carolina won, and we got to cheer with other fans. There was a set of annoying Duke fans, but hey, we won.
Then we went and got tickets to Mamma Mia, Orchestra seats. If you have seen the movie, don't judge us. This was soooo much better than the movie. First of all, all of the actors could sing, the set was amazing, and it was a Broadway show with orchestra seats!
All in all, this was my most favorite day of the vacation.

Day 4: Monday March 9
Monday was cold and rainy, but we had Statue of Liberty tickets, so we got up and caught the subway down to the south end of Manhattan. What is interesting about the NYC subway is you have to enter it on the right side of the street for the direction you are going. So there was a huge school group that was on one side of the street, then they crossed to the other side, then they realized they had to go back to where they were. I thought it would be a nightmare to take a school group to NYC.
So we got down to the ferry a bit early because I wasn't sure how long the subway would take. So we decided to go see Ground Zero, which was a subway exit up. Basically, it is a big hole in the ground with cranes. There is a temporary museum exhibit open, and it was very sobering.
Then we went on the ferry to the Statue of Liberty. We waited in line, and went through two security check points, and then we were only able to go up to the base of the pedestal, and not all the way up to the crown. As we walked around, all these people wanted to take pictures of themselves jumping. I didn't quite understand the point.

Then we went on the ferry to Ellis Island. It was interesting to see the room where they processed the immigrants. We couldn't find the book from Hitch, but we did find a trunk just like my mom's.
We had dinner at a Mexican place in South Port, which happened to be near the Hot Dog Eating Contest place, so we took a picture of it, and got to see the Brooklyn Bridge up close.
Because it was Monday there were no Broadway shows playing (even from the evil empire). So we took the subway up to Grand Central Station to check it out. The big hall looks like Hogwarts, and it is amazing how much stuff is underground! They had a little exhibit on how the subway was dug underneath the city, which I thought was interesting. There is a tool that digs a hole, and puts the concrete casing down all in one move.
Then we headed back to the hotel to make posters for the Today show!

Day 5: Tuesday March 10
We woke up at 5:30 A.M. to go be on the Today Show. We got there, and the only other people there were a group of cheerleaders from Texas. A man came over and said he had free hot chocolate and Krispy Kreme donuts for people waiting to be on the Today show. So we went over there, but the donuts were not Krispy Kreme donuts, so that was disappointing. While we were waiting we were blocked by several buildings, so it didn't seem to bad. But then they opened up the area where the taping is, and the wind blew through that alley, and it was freezing! I even tried bringing toasty-toe things to keep us warm, but they weren't that effective. We stood there for about an hour and a half, and then Al Roker came out to do the weather and he shook our hand! Then Meredith came out and even though we didn't get to be on TV, we did get a picture with her:

Then we were tired of trying to be on TV, so we went to get warmed up and eat breakfast, but we couldn't find a good place to eat. Then we walked to the MET, and saw Uma Thurman on the way. We tried one of the NYC Hot Dog stands, but it didn't taste very good, so we were not having a good food day. The MET was really cool, an awesome building. But I like photography, and there wasn't very much of that.  So because we got up so early, we headed back to the hotel for a little bit to rest before going to see Phantom!!!  But before we could see Phantom, we had to find some dinner.  We decided to try the Carnegie Deli, which is way famous.  We walked in and it was disgusting!  Huge plates of raw meat on every table with two slices of bread hidden.  We walked back out.  Then later on the vacation we were watching a TV show and it explained how Deli's are just big meat shops, and we were like, ooohhhh.  Bottom line, finding really great food is next to impossible in New York.  So then we went to Phantom of the Opera and it was amazing!  The actor playing Phantom sounded just like the recording, and the set was amazing and it was just B-Awesome! (To quote Bolt).

Day 6: Wednesday March 11
We got up and got tickets to see Angela Lansbury and Rupert Everett in a Blithe Spirit.  Then we walked to the Empire State building, but it was so overcast that the guy there said there was zero visibility.  So instead we went shopping.  H&M is a really cool store that we don't have in NC or  Utah.  And then we went to the largest Macy's ever!  It was enormous.  Anyway we had to leave to get back to the play on Broadway, and I am such a terrible texter that I said it is 1, meaning the time, and my sister read it as the first floor, so it took a while to find each other.  The play was really funny, and it was just fun to see Angela Lansbury and Rupert Everett live in person.  Then we got some Italian food and drove to Boston.  The drive was not that great because the exits weren't marked with facilities, and I ended up driving the wrong way on a one way street to find a bathroom.  Oh well.  But then we got to Boston and our hotel was totally swank!  The room was huge with two bathrooms!  Much improved over the NYC hotel.  Also, there were a million really nice restaurants right next to the hotel, like Maggiano's and Flemings, so you know it was a nice neighborhood.  

Day 7: Thursday March 12




We went to the JFK Presidential Library.  It was interesting to see some of the things he did in his presidency.  I hadn't realized that Jackie O was quite a bit younger than he was.  It was also interesting because the Obama's say similar things to the Kennedy's.  Then we went to Harvard and joined a campus tour.  Their library has a clause that it cannot be added to, so they put the stacks underground to hold all the books.  Harvard is small, like Duke, with only five thousand students total.  The book store was really cool, and we decided that libraries should be set up like bookstores because it is so easy to find a lot of books you want to read in a book store, and not so easy to do that in a library.  Then we walked around Cambridge, and got some dinner.  We were reading a newspaper to see what to do that evening, and saw an ad for Britney Spears Karaoke, so we decided that would be hysterical.  But we wanted to get desert first, and kill some time before that show started.  So I got the roads mixed up, so we walked all along one street that I thought would have shops, but it didn't really, and then we got to the street that was supposed to, but they all closed at 7 pm.  So unlike NYC where everything is open until midnight or later, Boston closes early.  Which was a major bummer.  So then we went hunting for desert, and couldn't find anyway, and we ended up walking by a grocery store on the way to the Britney Karaoke, so we just got desert there, and since it was so cold and windy, we gave up on the Britney Karaoke and just went back to the hotel.  But we had a great time talking while we ate desert in the grocery store, and then we were laughing our heads off walking back to the hotel.
Day 8: Friday March 13
We had thought about doing a historic walking tour, but it was so cold and windy that we gave up on that idea and went to the Science Museum instead.  It was a really cool museum, with a lightning show, an IMAX theater where we saw the Amazon and people with huge sticks through their chins, and lots of cool exhibits.  Then we we to Maggianos for dinner because it is good, and my sister gets a discount.  I decided to break away from my usual profiteroles and try their special.  It was awful!  A huge slab of dark dark bitter chocolate that tasted burnt, with marshmallow fluff on top.  Memo to self, stick with what you like.  Just further evidence that the food on this trip was not as good as the food on the Chicago trip.  Then we went to see Sheer Madness, which was hysterical.  

Day 9 and 10: Saturday March 14 - Sunday March 15





We drove back to NYC so my sisters could catch their flights.  Because I didn't know what traffic would be like, they got there way to early.  So they sat in the airport for a while.... and since I had a car and didn't have any particular time to leave, I drove back to the Empire State building and went up to the top.  It was a gorgeously sunny day, and the views were pretty cool.  Then I drove to PA to visit my friends again.  It was nice to just crash at their place and catch up on some sleep.  We did a ton of stuff on our trip, and I was tired.  I got to go to church and meet some of their friends, and we sat and visited and ate some good food.  



Day 11: Monday March 16
I drove back to North Carolina.  The amazing thing was after spending a week up north, in the cold, rainy windy weather, as I was driving back south, I got past Richmond and all of a sudden the trees were in bloom, the grass was green, and the weather was gorgeous.  Spring had arrived in the South!  I love living in the South.  

It has been hectic since getting back, work has been nonstop busy, and I ended up having to work last weekend to catch up from vacation.  Yuck.  But I finally got the blog entry written!  Hurray!  And.... go Heels! Still in the NCAA tournament, but the coolest time to watch them was at the ESPN zone with my sisters.   



Thursday, March 5, 2009

I'm leaving on a jet plane

Ok, not really. I am driving. Bottom line, I have had way to much to do and not enough time to blog. I was going to post about my trip last weekend to Charleston, but haven't had time to download the pictures from my camera because I have been getting ready for my trip to New York City! Wuhoo! I cannot tell you how excited I am to spend a week with my sisters, and to visit my best friend.

So hopefully by the end of March I can regale you with all of my fabulous trips.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Charleston... The America City

As you may or may not know, the title of this blog started with a class I took last year called "History or Memory". As part of that class, I wrote a research paper on Charleston, specifically how plantations are remembered, and how slavery is ignored or marginalized. So last year for spring break I got to visit Charleston. I recommend it, it is a great place to visit. But be sure to stay downtown so you can just walk around and see the sites. Anyway part of my visit was to go to a plantation that was working on restoring slave cabins to be part of their official tour. When I saw these cabins last year, they were falling apart. One cabin didn't have enough walls to attach the fireplace so it was being propped up by wood planks, and the termite damage was obvious, and there was no floor to walk on. Another cabin they were redoing the fireplace with authentic bricks. Another cabin had a bathroom that was not "period" that had to be removed. This year I was able to go down to Charleston for the opening ceremony.


News Article from Oct 20, 2008

News Article from Feb 22, 2009

Proof that Isaiah Washington was there

News Article from Mar 1, 2009

Pictures I took

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Everyone wants to feel like someone cares



Do you ever just have one of those weeks? Yesterday I called into a 9 AM conference call.... that was supposed to happen today. I then went to a 9:30 AM meeting, also happening today. So apparently yesterday was Thursday for me. Then today at 9 AM I called into the meeting that was scheduled for 9:30 AM, was late to the real 9 AM meeting, totally forgot about the 11:30 AM meeting, and then left work late to go to orchestra.

This scatter-brained-ness has extended to my blogging. I have started blog posts all week, only to find myself at a loss for words. Yea, I know you are surprised since I usually can ramble on and on about something :) Last week I was dying to blog about my big project, but I couldn't because I was trying to keep it a secret. Now I can't even find anything to say about that. Work is apparently just as scattered since I can't keep my calendar straight. At least I did remember it was my mom's birthday. But I forgot to do one of those special blog posts to commemorate it. Happy Belated Blog Birthday Mom!



And as for the subject title of this blog, I heard that song coming home from Orchestra and so it got stuck in my head. Good song. So hopefully this random collection of thoughts will help me clear out my head so I can figure out what day tomorrow is :)

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

An award.... of sorts

I won an award from my friend (some award!). It's basically a tag, but it sounded interesting so here I go (coming up with honest things to tell).



Here's the scoop...
1.Choose a minimum of 7 blogs and show the 7 winners' names and links on your blog, and leave a comment informing them that they were prized with "Honest Scrap", the nifty icon they can display proudly on their blog.
3. List at least 10 honest things about yourself.

here's my honest scrap:

1. I lived in Scotland with my family when I was 7 and I wore a black and orange stripped tie with a grey jumper to school which I thought was hideous because it didn't match.
2. I didn't like wearing tennis shoes because I thought they made my feet look fat. So I wore boots or sandals or jellies, anything but tennis shoes. I finally got over my terror of tennis shoes a couple of years ago, and own a pair that are nice to work out in and wear with jeans.
3. I was in the pit orchestra in high school playing the violin for our school musical. This meant I got to have an exchange student from London stay with me, and then go to London the next year to perform our musical. It was totally awesome to travel with my friends on a trip that wasn't a family vacation.
4. I have been robbed in Honduras at machete point, and I have had two apartments broken into which resulted lost property.
5. I have eaten a chicken guacamole sandwich in Mexico.
6. I don't like to have my hair shorter than my shoulders because it gets to big and poofy, but I forget this fact every couple of years and let a hair dresser cut it to my chin because they say it will be cute, and then I spend the next year clipping it back with little clips trying to get it to grow out and be less poofy.
7. I do not have a middle name.
8. My first job was working at Brueggers Bagel. I did not enjoy the part where I had to stand outside and hold the sign to get people to come into the store.
9. I love milk. I will order milk at a restaurant if I haven't had my glass for the day. This was especially funny to do in St Louis where I ate out for every meal, and waiters do a double take when you order milk.
10. I have always wanted to have red hair because it seemed more glamorous than blonde. So I finally got the guts up to dye my hair 2 years ago, and I really enjoyed it, but then decided it wasn't worth keeping up. But those are by far my favorite pictures of myself.

Blogs I tagged to get this award:
#1 Kim
#2 Carla
#3 Liz
#4 Stephanie
#5 Emily M
#6 Abe and Meredith
#7 Jamie
#8 Emily J

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happy Valentines Day



My sisters and I went to see Stomp last night. It was totally awesome! A great show, and great company to spend the evening.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Working 9 to 5

I opted to not post a video for this because of the language, but hum the tune to yourself while reading :)

I attended a Relief Society Enrichment night this week. It was a dinner for a Visiting Teaching conference. I was seated at a table with 7 other women. What was interesting was three of them were freshman in college, one was looking for a job, and three were employed. However, none of them were "career" women. In the words of one of the women at the table, when she graduated college she wasn't interested in a career job, so she works for a friend of her family's. The others have worked various jobs, but never more than a couple of years at once place. Usually the job changes are to move locations or because the current job got boring, not to move up a career ladder and get more skills or more prestige or a better title.

It occurred to me as I sat at this table that I am a career woman. I have pushed for the last two years to get a promotion, because I thought I was well-qualified and slightly overdue for it. I did finally get the promotion last summer. For the last year I have been pushing to be a Chief Programmer, which means the leader over an entire project (like, 50 ish people). Since that isn't panning out, I have been asking about moving into management, thinking that maybe that track will be faster than the technical advancement track.

I have been deluding myself into thinking I was just working at a job. When I was in college, I had no aspirations to be a career woman. I simply wanted to make money so that I wouldn't be poor. When I started at IBM, I didn't plan on staying there for more than a couple of years. I even thought about turning down stock options because I wouldn't be around when they vested. I used to think it didn't matter if I was a lead, I was good with just doing my job. But that actually isn't the case. I have recently been confronted with people at work who are
really ok with just doing their job, and not seeking anything more. I am always interested in growth opportunities, and if there is a hole I am always interested in filling it. I was thinking about this, and was going to blame the Individual Development Plan. At IBM, we have to tell them where we want to be in the next 1 year, and the next 5 years. I have had on there to be an STSM, which is close to the highest technical title you can have at IBM, but I never thought it was serious. But apparently, if you read that year after year after year, you start to believe it.

However, as I thought about this more, I realized it didn't just start with IBM. I have actually always been this driven. I worked at Wal-Mart when I was in high school and I started out stocking shelves. And then I got to know how Wal-Mart works, and started helping out when we were short, covering managers by being responsible for all of the registers in the store. So the managers wanted to assign me to work on the registers, and I told them no, they didn't need another cashier, they needed better management of the registered. I asked to be promoted to a Customer Service Manager (CSM), and that I was good at that and could keep everything organized and running. So they did, which meant a pay raise, and I was a CSM at the age of 18.

Moral of the story: Attending enrichment meetings is a great way to learn something new about yourself :)